by Amanda Rohrs-Dodge
Luke 23:55 - 24:11
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women who had come with him from Galilee followed, and they saw the
tomb and how the body was laid. Then they returned, and prepared spices
and ointments.
On the sabbath they rested according to the commandment.
But
on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they came to the tomb,
taking the spices that they had prepared. They found the stone rolled
away from the tomb, but when they went in, they did not find the body.
While they were perplexed about this, suddenly two men in dazzling
clothes stood beside them. The women were terrified and bowed their
faces to the ground, but the men said to them, “Why do you look for the
living among the dead? He is not here, but has risen. Remember how he
told you, while he was still in Galilee, that the Son of Man must be
handed over to sinners, and be crucified, and on the third day rise
again.” Then they remembered his words, and returning from the tomb,
they told all this to the eleven and to all the rest. Now it was Mary
Magdalene, Joanna, Mary the mother of James, and the other women with
them who told this to the apostles. But these words seemed to them an
idle tale, and they did not believe them.
“But these words seemed to them an idle tale, and they did not believe them”[1].
It is probably safe to say that most of us have been taught, from a
very early age, not to tell idle tales. The fable of ‘the boy who cried
wolf’ comes to mind. Do you remember it? A young boy is sent into the
field to tend a flock of sheep, which is pretty boring work. Thinking he
would play a practical joke on the townspeople, he cries out that there
is a wolf attacking the sheep, causing everyone to drop what they are
doing to come to his aid. When they arrive, there is no wolf, only the
boy who is amused by his ability to trick his elders. They tell him not
to do it again, but of course he does, with the same outcome. But then
one day a wolf does come. And when the boy calls out for help, no one
comes to his aid because they think he is once again trying to trick
them. In some tellings of the story the sheep die; in others, it is the
boy himself who gets eaten by the wolf. The moral of the story? Don’t
tell idle tales, because when the day comes that you’re telling the
truth, people might not believe you.
These
words seemed to them an idle tale, and they did not believe them. The
women who came to the tomb on that Easter morning stumbled upon a
traumatic surprise: the body of Jesus was gone. Not only that, but
suddenly two strange men appear before them, bringing good news that
initially begins almost as an interrogation. “Why do you look for the
living among the dead? Remember how he told you...?” The women do remember,
and they run to tell the others, to tell their story of what has
occurred that morning at the tomb, but they are not believed. The women
try to break the silence of fear and mourning, but their words fall on
deaf ears. They are not believed. Sometimes it is easier to believe the
truth is not truth at all, but only an idle tale.
On
Wednesday, March 20 students at Drew Theological School gathered
together to break a different kind of silence. At 11:20am, during the
weekly chapel service, members of Dr. Traci West’s class, “Ethically
Responding to Violence Against Women” broke the silence surrounding
violence against not only women, but also men and transgendered
individuals. Students in the class offered various reflections
surrounding the issue of violence. One student shared the concerns they
had of offering pastoral care to female victims of male violence when
they themselves were male. Another student shared her story of being
raped by her boyfriend in undergraduate school, and the ways in which
her religious upbringing had kept her from seeking help. A third student
shared a story that reflected the complicated experiences of immigrant
women who are victims of physical, emotional, and sexual abuse, whose
stories are often not believed. After each reflection a piece of pottery
was broken, symbolizing not only the violence that had been done but
also the power of breaking the silence surrounding these multiple forms
of violence (click to see parts 1, 2, and 3 of the service).
That
very same evening students, faculty, and even the dean of the
theological school performed Eve Ensler’s A Memory, a Monologue, a Rant, and a Prayer, a collection of monologues that told stories of
violence against women and girls. Stories of young adolescent girls who
were nearly sexually assaulted at parties. Stories of women pulling the
trigger during times of war. Stories of girls who were hidden in vats of
banana beer to protect them from soldiers looking to rape and kill them
during civil war. Story after story after story... stories that, when
seen in the paper or on the internet may be glossed over, maybe not as
an idle tale, but as something that happens somewhere else. Something
that happens to other people. Something that is far removed from many of
our experiences. But that night, in that space, as these stories were
embodied by the men and women of the Drew Theological School community,
the truth came out. These stories were not idle tales. They were
believed.
Sometimes
it is easier to believe that the truth is nothing but an idle tale, to
remain in denial. Like the disciples on that first Easter it can be
easier to not believe the women’s stories, because if we were to believe them... then we would have to do something.
In verse 12 the story continues: But
Peter got up and ran to the tomb; stooping and looking in, he saw the
linen cloths by themselves; then he went home, amazed at what had
happened. The note in my study bible says that “other ancient authorities lack verse 12”[2] which
causes me to ask, why was this part of the story added? Is it perhaps
because a later community was uncomfortable with the disciple’s lack of
belief? Did they need to have someone in
the story believe that the women could have been telling the truth?
Like Peter in the story, something about these women’s stories seems to
be more than an idle tale. And like Peter, we find ourselves in a place
of needing to know the truth for ourselves, leading us to the tomb, to
the source of the story. What we find is that the story is true: the tomb is empty, the body is gone, the silence has been broken.
Peter
goes home, amazed. But we cannot simply go home, not after hearing the
truth. There are other silences that need to be broken, other bodies to
stand in solidarity with, other stories that need to be told again and
again until the truth is revealed. We must break the silence surrounding
violence against women, be it by praying and preaching, or listening
and speaking, or even dancing in the street as a part of One Billion Rising, the "biggest mass global action to end violence against women
and girls in the history of humankind."
Perhaps
most importantly, we must have ears and hearts open to hearing the
stories. We must hear the truth in what the women say; we must believe.
And then we must run, to see and share the truth for ourselves, breaking
the silence, re-envisioning the world.
[1] I
am indebted to fellow classmate Kelly Lee (Drew Theological School,
‘13) who made the connection between the women’s resurrection story not
being believed and the way in which women’s stories of abuse are often
not believed.
[2] The New Oxford Annotated Study Bible, NRSV
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Amanda Rohrs-Dodge is the student assistant pastor at The United Methodist Church in Madison, located next to Drew University. She
graduated with her M.Div. from Drew Theological in Dec. 2012, and is
currently an MA student at Drew, focusing on the New Testament and
women's and gender studies. She lives with her husband who is a United
Methodist pastor and their three cats, Vinny, Yoko, and Tebogo.